The last week has been a busy one, but it has been productive for me. Thanks to all of you for your messages here and by email. I was feeling a little overwhelmed with my to-do list, and needed to take care of a few things.
Because I hold power of attorney for my Mom and for financial reasons with regards to the laws concerning Medicare/Medicaid and such, I had to pre-plan the arrangements for my mother's funeral expenses. No, I don't foresee her death as being anytime in the immediate future, but as I said, the arrangements needed to be done. I needed to drive three hours away to where the funeral home is (close to the cemetery and close to where most of my family on my mother's side lives) in order to do this, so it took most of a day there and back to handle this matter. As you can imagine, this task wasn't a pleasant one. It left me feeling emotionally drained, but I am relieved to have gotten it done.
Also, because winter arrived here so early this year with bitter cold temperatures, and the cold has held tight onto us throughout December and January, my walks outside have become a thing of the past for the last couple of months. I was feeling like quite the slug from the lack of exercise. I needed to carve out some time to set aside for myself to get back in the habit of exercise. Over the past week, I've re-established my visits to the local Y to spend time walking around the track there. It means I am now up at 6:00 am every morning so I can drive to the Y and get my walking in before time for me to get ready to go to work. Getting up earlier means going to bed earlier too. So I've been trying to adjust to this change and make it a new habit. Although it has only been a week, I already can tell a difference in the way that I feel. I have more energy and am of a happier disposition.
I also had several other projects that had been pushed to the back burner of late on which I wanted to focus some attention. I am making some progress on those things as well. So here I am back to blogging. I have kept up with reading the blogs that I visit regularly, and will be around to say hello to everyone soon.
My son's girlfriend turned 18 this past week, and we attended a birthday party for her. She also got new glasses this week. I think they look quite nice on her.
My son had a close call when he took her home the same night these pictures were made. I let him take my new car to take her home because he hadn't had a chance to drive it yet. Let me just say that black ice on the roads and a large buck deer that leaps out into the road right in front of you is not a good combination, but fortunately, he was able to stop in time. He said when he got home that he was glad he was driving my new car instead of the old Metro because the new car handles better in the snow, and he wasn't sure he would have been able to stop in time if he had been in the Metro.
He saw one deer at the side of the road ahead of him and slowed down keeping his eye on it to make sure it wasn't going to jump in front of the car. Well, while he was keeping an eye on that deer, another deer appeared from the darkness on the opposite side of the road and jumped into the road directly in front of him. As I said, he did manage to avoid hitting it, but the near miss shook him up some. He said the buck was as big as the whole front end of the car.
The weather has been cold and grey for what seems like a long time here. Every time the snow starts to melt just a little, then another storm goes through to give us a new layer. I'm missing blue skies and the sun, but I know they'll come back around here eventually.
Here are some pictures of our snow and icicles on the house (Icicle pictures are for you, Mildred). ;-) The icicles aren't as big and impressive yet this year as they have been other years---not that I want them to be!!
These are across the front of our house.
This is from inside looking out through the front picture window in the living room. Can you see the icicles hanging down from the eaves? It is hard to photograph them when the sky is gray. They are easier to see and are much prettier when the sky is blue, but I have to work with what we have.
These are the icicles on the back of the house looking out through my kitchen window.
We finally had a blue sky for a little while this morning, and I got a couple of pictures then.
Before the most recent snowstorm we had, which left us with five inches of new snow, the squirrels were having a feeding frenzy digging up the maple whirlygigs from under the snow in the front yard. This isn't a very clear picture, but maybe if you enlarge it you can see there are five squirrels there all in close proximity and all digging in the snow for the seeds. I think they knew the storm was coming and were preparing for it. It was kind of like how some people make a grocery run to buy milk and bread and eggs whenever a big storm is predicted.
This was sunrise this morning. It wasn't a very spectacular one, but I wanted to show you this tree. Whenever I look out at this view from our side window, I am amused by the guy in our tree there. Can you see him? Wait, let me draw some outlines on him.
There, can you see him now? He's sitting down with both arms and both legs sticking up in the air as if he has just slipped and fallen on the ice. HA HA HA!
Today my husband and I traveled to a surprise 60th birthday party for a friend of ours. The party was about an hour and a half away. There wasn't much to see on the way there or back--mostly more white snow on the empty corn and soybean fields and gray skies above them.
We did drive by a fruit orchard of some sort--apple trees, I believe, which gave a little break from the monotony of white snow-covered fields.
We had fun at the party. This is a picture of our friend who was celebrating his 60th birthday.
After lunch, they broke out guitars and drums and rhythm instruments and played a few songs to entertain the guests.
It was fun, but the trip made for a long day, and I was glad to be home again afterwards. This is a shot of the courthouse square as we rolled into town today.
I hope you all have had a good week since I last blogged and that an even better week is coming for you in the days ahead.


29 comments:
Welcome back Daisy, I missed you. I haven't had a good laugh since you've been gone. It's been as cold and icy here too. I'm afraid of falling so I've stayed in.. Thank goodness the canning is paying off :o) Ginny
Thank you, Ginny. I better get busy and think of something funny to post on my other blog for you! :-)
Yes, I think that is wise to stay inside as much as possible when it is so icy. I get nervous walking on it too, and don't do it any more than I have to. I hope things warm up for you there soon!
Welcome back friend!
Your son's girlfriend looks just beautiful! Love the new eyeglasses. They are a very nice couple.
There you are with those big icicles again! I love the ones against the blue sky especially. We grow midget icicles here in the south!!!
I know now how tiring snow/ice can be. One week of it and I'm ready for Spring. I sure am thankful your son avoided the deer on the icy roads.
I'm glad you are back and I hope the week goes smoothly.
Thank you, Mildred! It's good to be back. :-)
Catching up we did!! So glad that your boy was driving your new car too. Psheew! He kept his angel busy that night. Oh and the icicles...YES....love 'em. Now I'm in Phx and not ONE in sight! Have a good week lady!
You know that last comment was me (Cassie) right? BTW, when you started out talking about the power of attorney I gasped. You are right though, that it is a necessary thing and when the time comes it is best to have all your ducks in a row. Patrick & I did that several years ago and I rest easy knowing we're prepared.
Glad you're back, Daisy! I enjoyed this post and catching up on the happenings in your life. I think they need to have deer season open all year and thin out some of the population! They are everywhere and when you least expect it they will jump right in front of you. Remember this happened to us one night coming home from church. It really messed the car up but we were not hurt. Glad your son is okay. That's a cute girl friend!
Hi Cassie! HA! Yes, I knew it was you. :D About my son, yes, I do believe someone was looking out for him that night. I'm glad to hear you are safely in Phoenix. Enjoy the sun for me there. :)
Hi Dorothy! The deer population does seem very high here. None of my family has hit one, but every one of us have had several very close calls with them on the road. We are always on the watch for them. Hope you have a good week ahead! :)
Welcome back, Daisy.... Sounds like like for you is quite busy now. Good luck with those early "Y" visits for exercise.
It's good to get the funeral arrangements taken care of NOW for your mother... That way, it will be done when needed. George's parents have their funeral arrangements done also.
Happy Birthday to your son's gal... She's a pretty young lady.
Yes--it has been cold and snowy. Love seeing your icicles and snow pictures.
Have a great week.
Hugs,
Betsy
Thanks, Betsy. It's good to be back, and yes, my schedule has been pretty full lately. I hope you have a great week too. :)
Daisy! So good to catch up with you! I enjoyed the pictures with the icicles so much. Keep warm and stay happy, darling! Your plate is full.
Thank you, Betty! Wishing you all good things. I hope you have had a great birthday. Enjoy your week! :)
SOmetimes we have to do unpleasant tasks and it's always good when they are over. Glad your son (and car) were OK after the near-buck meeting. Black ice is always dangerous even in daylight. Welcome back.
Thank you, Beatrice! :-)
Black ice is scary for me to drive on, but we don't have much choice living where we do. Everybody just needs to slow down more in winter.
I hope you have a great week!
Yep, definitely sounds like you've been busy! And that cold and ice! I got cold just looking at your pictures! Better go stoke my woodstove ... glad you can get back to your walking tho and are feeling more up and at em!
Thank you, Autumn. It seems like the cold has been around for a long time here. Summer seems like forever ago! Walking again daily really has given me a lift and made me feel more energetic, though. I hope you have a great week! :)
Glad to see you back Daisy, oh my you have been a busy bunny. Hopefully everything will settle down a wee bit for you.
Thank you, Ryan. No rest for the weary, I suppose. :) I do think things are settling down some for me now, though. Hope you have a great week!
I can see the man in your tree! Maybe he likes to watch all the squirrels that scamper over him, wonder if they tickle?
I can understand how all the planning for your Mother's funeral would be emotionally draining.How is your Mother?
The icicles look dangerous, but pretty. And your son's girlfriends glasses are cute, but she does them justice.
Those dang deer. You just know they lie in wait along the highways and byways to get themselves run over by cars, causing a lot of damage to both deer, and car.( or worse) It is very good your son drove your car, I bet you said "Thank-you God" and gave your son a big hug and kiss!
Kathy, I was very grateful that my son missed hitting that deer. I could tell by how upset he was that it had been a very close call for him. My mom is about the same, although, it seems that she is talking less and less to me. It is such a struggle for her even to try. On good days she will still smile and laugh at times, though, so I know she is listening.
The man in the tree is kind of a skinny fellow, isn't he. HA! :)
Nice catching up with you and so glad your son didn't crash!!
Those arrangements you made are always kind of hard...but needed I guess.
glad you're back..
Happy birthday to your son's girlfriend. What a pretty girl.
Hi Sandy! Thank you. I'm really glad my son managed to stop in time for that deer too. Perhaps it is a good thing that he had such a close call. I'm sure he will be even more cautious now when driving out in the areas where the deer are so heavily populated. I hope you are having a good week! :-)
Thanks for sharing Daisy. Always nice to hear from you and I'm glad your son is safe, and that you took care of the stuff for your mom. It will be a good thing when the time comes, and I applaud your strength.
Thank you, Melissa. I had been putting off taking care of the plans for my Mom, dreading it. I am glad it is behind me now, though. It will make things easier later. I hope you are feeling better and are having a good week.
Glad to see you back Daisy, and thanks for taking the time to visit & comment to me. :)
Sound like a close call with that deer -I am in the country and am always on the look out for them.
Love the analogy of the squirrels and the frantic people who hear snow is coming and run tot the store.
Have a great week
Thanks, Jen! We've had so many close encounters with deer on the roads and know so many people who have hit them that I always feel like I am on high alert for them when driving at night. They are so quick and can jump in front of you in just a blink. I hope you have a great week too. :-)
My daughter saw the pictures of the icicles and said, "icicles! I've always wanted some of those!"
Your recipe for feeling better sounds like an excellent one. Now I just need a cattle prod to get myself going.
Daisy,
It's good to hear from your again. Those snow photos are lovely and your son's girlfriend is very pretty.
I know how you feel making arrangements for your mom, I know it's hard to do but will make it easier whenever the time comes for her funeral.
Glad you're back to blogging.
Dapoppins, she can have mine if she wants them! HA HA HA! How cute! :-)
Thank you, Brenda. I don't know why it is, but sometimes I drag my feet and have to convince myself to do things that need to be done, even though I know I'll be glad when they are finished. I hope you are having a good week! :)
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