Tuesday, December 14, 2010

So...You Turned 21 Today

   Today is my son's 21st birthday.  He is away at college, so I didn't get to celebrate the day with him.  It doesn't seem right not getting to see him on such an important birthday milestone, but he will be home this weekend, so we can celebrate the day then.  I did send him messages over the internet and talk to him on the phone tonight, but it's just not the same as seeing him and being able to give him a hug.


   Here are a couple of my favorite pictures of him when he was little.  The first when he was two years old and the second when he was three years old.  In the first one he was climbing up the slide in the back yard (not on the ladder, but up the slide itself).




I love the mischievous look on his face and the twinkle in his eye in this next one.  He looks like he is up to something.




   It seems like such a short time ago that he was this young.  It's hard to believe he is 21 years old.  I remember the days of water balloon fights and Little League baseball games and gliding about on roller blades so well.  I remember his love of matchbox cars and Pokemon characters and Power Rangers.  


   I remember how proud I was of him when he had a daily paper route, and when he not only was chosen to be part of the school's Quiz Bowl team, but when their team won first place in the county, and his picture was on the front page of the local newspaper. 


   I remember him looking out for his little brother, taking care of him and teaching him things.  He kept him safe from bullies in the neighborhood and taught him the secrets that brothers share.


   From the days when he lost his first tooth to when we took the training wheels off his bike to when he learned to drive a car and tie a necktie and went on his first date, all of those days have been on my mind today.


   In high school he was on the track team and cross country team and loved pole vaulting more than anything.  He was also very active in and passionate about our church youth fellowship group.  His concern for others was then, and still is, genuine and backed up by the many times he has volunteered his time and service to help those in need.


   He is now and always has been a blessing to me for which I am very grateful.  He has grown into a responsible young man.  He is a cheerful, caring, loving, personable fellow with a great sense of humor and lots of friends.  


   In addition to carrying a heavy class load with a double major at school, he is also the leader of a Christian student group on his campus that meets each week that he helped to create.  He will graduate from college this summer with his Bachelor's Degree and has applied to some Graduate colleges for after that.  I am pleased and proud to call him my son.  Happy Birthday, Kiddo!  Thank you for being the wonderful person that you are.



28 comments:

Dorothy said...

Happy Birthday to your son! Who wouldn't be proud of a son like that!!! Plus I like his haircut and I don't see any visible tatoos, nose rings, etc! You have every right to be proud of him and I'm happy for you!!!!

Betsy from Tennessee said...

Happy Birthday to your handsome son... He has turned into an incredible young man --and I know you are proud of him. In fact, both of your sons are fabulous... You and hubby have done a great job of raising them...

Hugs,
Betsy

David L Macaulay said...

nice one Daisy - and I bet it seems 5 minutes ago since the first picture was taken.

KathyB. said...

Oh Daisy, what a handsome son, what a wonderful son and blessing! They do grow up so quickly,but now your son is a man, and all the more pride and joy, and thankfulness you and your husband must have. Happy birthday to your son~

Daisy said...

Thank you, Dorothy. He started wearing his hair short like that in high school when he was running for cross country because it was easier to take care of. I guess he likes it that way because he has worn it that way ever since. I don't think tattoos and piercings are quite his style either. :)

Thank you, Betsy. We did our best, but being who he is made it easier for us. :-)

David, it really does. I remember the day I took that picture very clearly. The time goes so fast. :)

Thank you, Kathy! "Yes, we are both very grateful for our sons. They bring us much joy. :)

Sandy said...

Wow Daisy - you have so many reasons to be proud of him. He sounds like someone I would like to know. And what a cute kid and handsome guy he is. Happy Birthday to him...

Daisy said...

Thank you, Sandy. I'm sure he'd like to know you too. :-)

Jen said...

Awesome kid! or should I say Young Man.
It seems like he just left for college! You should be very proud.

Daisy said...

Thank you, Jen. Yes, I am still trying to grasp the fact that he will graduate from college this summer coming up! :-)

Ryan said...

Happy birthday to your boy Daisy, you must be so proud.
Where does the time go?

Together We Save said...

Happy Birthday to your son.... hope he had a wonderful day.

Daisy said...

Thank you, Ryan. It amazes me sometimes how quickly the years go by. :-)

Thank you, Denise. He had a good day, although a busy one. He is looking forward to coming home tomorrow for his Christmas break. :)

Ben said...

A wonderful tribute - evidently you've done the "parenting" thing well and it shows! Our son always had a birthday after being back in college about two days - that was not fun at all, so I know what you are talking about!

Daisy said...

Thank you, Ben. We're looking forward to seeing him tomorrow. :)

Cassie said...

Happy 21st Birthday from North Idaho! That pic of #1 son with the mischievous look is sooooo sweet. I like that he taught his little bro & protected him. My (older) sister was always so mean to me. I wished for an older brother! Good weekend to you Daisy dear.xx

Daisy said...

Thank you, Cassie! Happy weekend to you and Patrick too. :-)

Brenda Kay Ledford said...

Happy birthday to your son. He sure is a fine looking man and I know you are so proud of him.

I hope you have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

Daisy said...

Thank you, Brenda! You're very sweet. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your family too! :)

ladydi said...

What a nice birthday tribute to your son! Birthday wishes from NE Ohio from another mom who thinks time goes too fast.

Daisy said...

Thank you, Diana! He went and got his driver's license renewed today, so now he has one that shows he's an adult. I know, because of your own sons, you understand the way I feel with time flying by. :)

Marydon said...

What a lovely share of your son ... I know what YOU are doing this weekend. Enjoy that handsome young chap!

Merry Christmas ~
Have a beautiful week ~
TTFN ~ Hugs, Marydon

Daisy said...

Hi Marydon! Yes, the birthday boy is home from college now and the younger one is out from school on Christmas break too for a couple of weeks. Feels more like Christmas with everyone home! :)

Southern Comfort said...

This was so sweet and almost made me cry. My son just turned 22 and my daughter 21. I loved all the things you said, very well done! Happy Birthday to Daisy's son.

Daisy said...

Thank you for the good wishes, Southern Comfort. I'm sure you have felt this same way with both your son and daughter. The time sure zips by. :)

Tracy said...

Ahhh, Daisy,
What a beautiful tribute to your son; it warms my heart thinking of your son and what an outstanding young man he has grown into with your nurturing and care.
A mother's love foe her son goes so deep, doesn't it? I look at my kiddo and just glow and beam with pride; I hear that same feeling in your post and good for you!
Thanks you for visiting my blog...I hope you are warm in Ohio and you aren't boxed in by snow yet! Blessings to you this day!

Daisy said...

Thank you for your very kind words, Tracy. They are much appreciated. Merry Christmas to you and yours! :-)

Haddock said...

Isn't it nice to see that transformation.

Daisy said...

Yes, it is. I miss the days when he was little, but yes, it is also good to see the responsible young man he has become. Merry Christmas to you and yours, Haddock! :D