Friday, December 31, 2010

Make This Christmas Thing Last

Last night we went to see the Trans-Siberian Orchestra in concert at the Palace in Auburn Hills, Michigan.  The tickets for the concert were a Christmas gift from my sons.  I love the music of the Trans-Siberian Orchestra and really enjoyed the concert.


The Palace is a large venue for a concert in my opinion.  There were so many people there that it was a bit overwhelming for me at first.  It is the same stadium where the Detroit Pistons play basketball, and it was filled to the rafters with people last night.  We really enjoyed the concert.  Traveling there, however, was another matter.  The drive there reminded me of something that I already know.  I am NOT a city girl.  Give me small town life in the midst of farm country any day over life in a big city.


There was a lot of traffic.  We got snarled up in it and inched along for quite a while.  We didn't know why the cars were backed up at first, but eventually we came upon the reason.  There had been an accident.  We don't know what happened or how many vehicles were involved, but when we came upon it, there was a semi truck  left across the road in front of us blocking all three lanes of the northbound traffic, one of which was our lane. So all three of our lanes were being funneled into a single lane which then had to go off the road and onto the berm to get around the wrecked semi truck.  No wonder the traffic was backed up so far!  


Once we got past that spot, things went along pretty well for a while until we missed a turn.  It was dark by this time and there didn't seem to be many signs or street lights where we were driving, so it wasn't easy to find our way.  Eventually, we got back on course and got into more heavy traffic around Detroit.  No accidents this time, just a lot of cars.  We finally arrived at the stadium, and we were glad to be there.


As I said we really enjoyed the music at the concert.  They played many of their Christmas songs that were familiar to me.  I especially liked some of the lyrics of one song in particular that I hadn't heard before.  The song is called "Old City Bar."  It is a rather long song, but you can listen to it at that link if you haven't heard it and wish to do so.  There was one part of the lyrics that I especially liked.  These are the words:

"If you want to arrange it
This world you can change it 
If we could somehow make this 
Christmas thing last 

By helping a neighbor 
Or even a stranger 
And to know who needs help 
You need only just ask."

Those seem like good words to live by to me.  Those in the audience at the concert were quite appreciative of the music and the words, and everyone seemed caught up in the spirit, not only of that song, but of all of them.  The feeling of good-will was almost palpable to me.

Traffic on the way home was much lighter and easier to manage.  We made good time going home and got back into our town just a little after midnight.  We noticed a helicopter landing on the pad at the hospital and thought that seemed a little unusual at that hour on a Thursday night.  Although patients are regularly transferred from our hospital to a larger one in either Toledo, Ohio or Fort Wayne, Indiana, those types of transfers are usually done during the day.  The helicopter at night usually is the result of an emergency or an accident of some sort.  

We didn't think too much about the helicopter other than taking note of it.  Then we saw a car blocking the side street in front of our local police station as we drove by it.  That seemed strange to us too.  We couldn't figure out why that car was there.  It just seemed odd and out of place there.  Both the police station and the hospital are just a few blocks from our home, by the way.

This morning we heard on the news that someone had showed up at our local police station with a rifle and fired shots into the building.  This was the same police station building that we drove by last night.  We drove by about a half an hour after the incident had occurred.  The shooter left the scene but the police found him a short distance away.  He was brandishing an assault rifle and opened fire on the officers.  The ordeal ended when he was shot by a local police officer.  The police officers weren't injured.  The man was life flighted out in that very helicopter that we saw at the hospital when we returned on our way back from the concert.  The last I heard he was in critical condition.  This is one of the local news reports about the incident if you want to listen to it.

The rumor is that this man's daughter died as a result of a motorcycle accident here last May. Some say that he hasn't been able to come to terms with her death and feels that the local police are responsible for what happened to her.  She apparently fell off a motorcycle that was being chased by the local law enforcement.  He blames the police for her death,  and that is why he showed up with the gun.  I don't know if that is true, but in any case, it is a sad story no matter how you look at it.

So the joy we experienced from attending the concert was tempered with the knowledge of this shooting in our little town that we might have literally driven right into if we had come home just a half an hour earlier.   A shooting that apparently may have come about because of a man whose soul was tortured with sadness from the death of his daughter and who had thoughts of revenge.

It made me think back to those lyrics from that song I mentioned above speaking about helping those who need it.  This man who arrived in our town with a rifle is someone who needed help, but apparently no one recognized it, or they knew and took no action.

So this year ends on a bittersweet note for me as I contemplate the events of the last 24 hours or so.  These events serve as a reminder to me that life is short, and that we should do our best to love one another as well as we are able.  We don't know what the next new day will bring to us or to those we love.  As we head into the new year,  I hope I can keep this in mind.  I hope like the song above says that I can also "make this Christmas thing last by helping a neighbor or even a stranger."

I hope this Christmas thing lasts for you and for those you love.  
Happy New Year, my friends.


27 comments:

Betsy from Tennessee said...

What a great concert you must have had, Daisy... I would love to hear the Trans-Siberian Orchestra in concert. WOW---that must have been fabulous.

But---I hate to hear about the shooting at the local police station. I'm so sorry...

YES---let's keep the Christmas JOY year-round.... Happy New Year, Daisy.
Hugs,
Betsy

Mildred said...

That is sad news indeed about the man who lost his daughter and ultimately turned the gun on officers. I am sorry the joy of the concert was tempered by this tragedy. Thanks for sharing the lyrics from the song - an important reminder. Love to you and your family and a blessed new year.

Daisy said...

Thank you, Betsy and Mildred. I hope you both have a wonderful new year!
:-)

Lanny said...

Oh Daisy, when I began to read I was just excited for you to have been able to go to the concert. Bet and I listen to the TSO a lot. Bet even more than I. Then as I read farther, i was so sorry that a tragedy had to strike so close to home. Tragedy on so many levels, that just seems to continue to give birth to more tragedy. The cycle stops with each individual.

Rest with your men folk and have a good start to the new yearl

♥Kathy♥ said...

Well I am glad you enjoyed your concert. I never know what to say about shootings like this. I am glad that you all weren't hurt. I'm surprised more people weren't hurt.
Well anyway Happy New Year Daisy. =)

Daisy said...

Thank you, Lanny. We really did enjoy the concert. I'm sure you and Bet would have loved it. And yes, a tragedy, that is exactly what the shooting was. It struck me as a very sad situation that snowballed and got bigger and sadder. Wishing you and your family a new year full of love and blessings.

Kathy, situations like this put me at a loss for words too. I felt bad for everyone involved.
Thank you, and I hope you have a very happy New Year too!

Dorothy said...

Good Morning, Daisy! I know you enjoyed hearing them! I would love to hear the Trans-Siberian Orchestra in concert. Blessings for a happy new year!

Daisy said...

Happy new year to you and Jeep and your family, Dorothy! I hope it brings you all good things. :)

ladydi said...

Oh mercy. Love the lyrics, hate the traffic snarl. Hate the shootout. I'm glad you have good memories of the concert to remember the day by.

... Paige said...

glad you enjoyed the concert. and it is very sad when we have to blame someone for a death instead of seeing that it was someone's time to go home.

like it or not death is a promise of life, it's only a matter of what we do with that life that will change the world in which we live

Happy New Year

Marydon said...

Happy New Year, sweet friend ~ So glad you had such a wonderful time.

It is tragic that one is so grief stricken to have it consume their life. I am very sad this has happened & hope God shares His love for this man. Two tragic losses ...

Thank you for your wonderful friendship that I so enjoy, Daisy.
Looking forward to many more beautiful moments to treasure ...

TTFN ~ Hugs, Marydon

Sandy said...

That is such a sad story about the man and his daughter. Very sad.

I enjoyed reading about the orchestra you heard. I have listened to them before and like them.

Traffic in the city..ugh..we don't go to LA much because of that and it is only 40 minutes away with no traffic. It can be two to three hours away on a really bad rush hour day with an accident up ahead.

Hope your new year is wonderful and Christmas feelings last all year for you too.

Bossy Betty said...

Joy and sadness--they weave themselves in and out of our lives--don't they?

Hope your New Year is a wonderful one, Daisy. I treasure our blogging friendship.

Southern Comfort said...

Hi Daisy, Happy New Year! Thank you for the "book suggestion" websiste. I am about to check it out. Making Christmas last is a nice goal, thank you.

Tracy said...

Daisy,
That sure is bittersweet...how tragic for the man and for all who witnessed such tragedy.
I'm glad you enjoyed TSO...we went in Dec. to see them before Christmas here in NC and I love their music but the concert was too loud for me.
I am glad you enjoyed it and got home safely...I'm like you...KEEP me OUT of traffic. I'll take a country road anyday!

Ryan said...

wow I'm glad you're safe, it just shows you never know what is around the next corner.
Wishing you a happy new year.

Daisy said...

Diana, yes, going to the concert will be a good memory that will stay with me. :D

Paige, that's true, it is up to each of us to use the time we have here in a positive way and death is inevitable for us all.

Thank you, Marydon! I am very grateful for your friendship too!

Thank you, Sandy. I wouldn't hold up very well in LA traffic. Of that I am quite sure!!

Betty, thank you! I treasure our friendship too! Like it or not, yes, joy and sadness so often go hand in hand.

Southern Comfort, thank you! I hope that site will find some good books for you to try.

Tracy, the music was loud, but it was a huge arena and we were pretty far back, so that worked out well for us. The music was great! Yes, give me a country road over the freeway anyday!

Thank you, Ryan! Yes, we really can't predict what tomorrow will bring and should try to live our lives well every day we are given.

Happy New Year to all of you! Wishing you all the very best. I feel very lucky to have so many blogging friends with which to share the events of my life. :-)

❥ ќʀɨsтɨиɑ said...

Oh yes, we sure did and it was soo fun!!! >____<tr

S E E Quine said...

OMG, so much violence and overturned semis for the turn of the year! Glad you're still okay!

Must... listen... to... song....

Daisy said...

Thanks, Sarah! Yes, it could have been worse. I'm surprised that no one other than the shooter got hurt. This sort of thing is a pretty rare occurrence in our small town.

Carol............. said...

The music by Trans-Siberian Orchestra is wonderful. I'd never hear of them before and ended up watching about 4 YouTube videos from the link you posted. Might just need to know more about them. Thanks

Have a great New Year!

Brenda Kay Ledford said...

Daisy,
Glad you went to the concert and made a Christmas memory. I hope you had a wonderful Christmas and will have a happy New Year.

Dapoppins said...

I don't know what to say to that tragedy, all words just seem to fumble about.

❥ ќʀɨsтɨиɑ said...

Thanks! It's pretty, right? Haha :D I'm glad that you liked it.

Daisy said...

Carol, I'm glad you enjoyed their music. I've been listening to their songs for a couple of years now. They are very talented, I think. :)

Thank you, Brenda!

Dapoppins, yes, it really is tragic because it didn't have to be that way. It was sadness on top of sadness.

Thanks all for visiting and commenting here. I hope you have a happy new year!

Glenda Beall said...

My first visit here. I enjoyed this post and like your wish the Christmas thing lasts. Wouldn't that be wonderful.
All that love that goes around at Christmas could just flow over us for the next twelve months.

Daisy said...

Hi Glenda! Welcome. Thank you for visiting and commenting here. Yes, that would be wonderful to keep that feeling of love going all the time. Imagine how the world might change if we did. :-)